Campus Advisor
by Linda Bates Parker
Dear
Campus Advisor:
I start my "real" job next month after being in college for seven
long years earning my bachelor’s degree in economics. I am feeling excited and
nervous because I’ll be in a new experience (no more college life) with new
co-workers and new challenges. I’ll also be making more money than I ever have
in my life! My parents have never worked in the kind of high-paying job like
this. They’ve given me a lot of good advice, but I’m still nervous. What are
the most important things I can do to make a positive first impression?
Ready in Memphis
Dear Ready:
Congratulations on your persistence. Your long journey to achieve your degree
is over and your future looks bright. Having already snared a lucrative
position, you are ahead of the class of 2000 and very wise to look for ways to
start out on a good foot. With the loving advice your parents have given you, I’d
like to add my thoughts on preparing for your first job and making the right
impression.
Since you have approximately one month to get ready, I’ve decided to give
you a four-week count down:
Week 4: First, establish your mental framework. Go to church and thank God
for continually blessing you. Remember, you did not make it to this point by
yourself. You have much to be thankful for.
Next, if funds permit, go shopping for the kinds of things that working
people need to have. Avoid trendy outfits. Shop in a store that specializes in
business attire. Ask an experienced sales associate for insight on quality
brands in your size and price range. Purchase a good quality business suit and
get it properly altered. Try to locate a store that does free alterations. This
will give you a suit that says, "I’m ready for business."
Take a look at your shoes, briefcase, purse and other accessories. Polish
shoes; get new heels or soles if necessary. Be sure you can walk around for
eight to10 hours in your shoes. This is definitely the sign of a professional to
have clothes and shoes that fit and can stay crisp looking all day long. Never,
never wear new shoes without breaking them in at least a week ahead of time.
Clean out your purse or briefcase or planner. Throw away scraps of paper, old
college notes and things that are cluttering these accessories. Be sure you have
a place to put business cards.
Start a daily exercise program to help you endure long workdays and to
relieve stress. Learn to take deep cleansing breaths to manage some of your
nervousness. Breath in with your mouth closed as deeply as you can, then breathe
out very slowly by mouth. Do this often during the course of the day, when you
have a moment alone. Continue this during your workday to reduce tension.
Week 3: Drive past or take the bus or train to your new place of employment.
Go at 7:00 a.m.! Determine the best rush-hour route. Locate employee parking.
Determine the weekly cost of parking and be sure you have enough money for
transportation/parking expenses (and lunch) until payday. Buy tokens if
necessary. Observe how your co-workers are dressed. Take your clues from the
people that look the most professional. Greet the guards or parking attendants.
Let them know you’re a new employee, just trying to learn your way around.
They may have interesting insights or suggestions to give you, plus you’ll be
seeing these people everyday and it'll be nice to have them know you. Listen,
learn but don’t believe everything you hear, so you should reserve judgment!
Week 2: Take this week to enjoy yourself. Take in a few movies. Spend time
with family. Have lunch with college friends, etc. It may be a while before you
get to do these things once into your "8-5."
Week 1: With only seven days before starting your position, it’s a good
idea to organize your work clothes and hang together your outfits for the week
and all accessories. This will save lots of time with your morning rituals.
Women, especially, need to check their hose supply and be sure to have enough
for the entire week. Write down in your planner five things you want to
accomplish in your first five days on the job. Contact your supervisor to find
out where you should report, at what time, and whom you should see upon arrival.
Take notes and put them in your planner. You’ll be amazed at how this kind of
personal organization can add to your feelings of confidence and readiness!
Take time to sit quietly and read any company literature you have been
provided. Go on the Internet to see what else you can learn about your new
company. Also, read current issues of Business Week, Black Enterprise,
and The Wall Street Journal to be familiar with current business
matters for informal chitchat situations. Check your alarm clock to make sure it’s
working and that the wake-up time is set right. Use it everyday, the week before
you start work, to see what it feels like to get up at that time. Then enjoy the
fact that you have a week before you have to. Fill your gas tank, if you have a
car.
The night before, eat and get to bed early so you can get up early. Try
taking a hot bath. Read a book on meditation or something very relaxing. Avoid
late night TV or telephone conversations. Review your five desired
accomplishments that you wrote in your planner. Set your alarm to give you at
least 30 extra minutes than it usually takes you to get dressed. Avoid any
alcohol, because it can linger the morning after. Get a good night’s sleep.
First Day: Get up when the alarm clock rings. Do not fall back to sleep! Do a
few morning exercises to get your blood flowing. Take an invigorating shower.
Get dressed in bright light so you can really see yourself. Women need to be
sure their makeup is daytime-wear not evening! Avoid too much perfume or
cologne; it will overwhelm you if you get really nervous. Have a good breakfast;
you’ll need the extra energy. Plan to arrive 30 minutes before you are
scheduled to be there. Come to work ready to work, and with a pleasant manner.
Greet people; introduce yourself, don’t just wait for others to greet you. Try
to remember names of colleagues, if you can.
If you are to report to someone, be sure to address that person by his/her
last name, unless invited to do otherwise. If you have an office, find out what
the office protocols are, rules for hanging pictures, getting supplies, etc.
Review any materials left at your workstation for you. You may be given a formal
orientation schedule, or you may have received an orientation manual in advance.
You may be taken to lunch or there may be a welcome coffee break with your
colleagues, so stay flexible, even if none of these things occur.
Don’t wait to be told what to do. Seek out your supervisor or direct report
and ask, "Where would you like me to begin?" This will get you off to
a good start. In summary, the most important things you can do on the first day
to establish a dynamic and positive impression are:
- Be on time.
- Be ready to work.
- Greet your new colleagues.
- Get your assignments.
- Get busy.
If you do these things, you will be viewed as the winner that you are, and
you’ll have a great new beginning.
Linda Bates Parker is the director of the Career
Development Center at the University of Cincinnati.
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