Eat For Success: "Food For Thought"
by Dr. Calvin Mackie
Even though the path to an education has many obstacles
and barriers, it is a well-beaten path, having been traveled by many.
But the path to true success is unbeaten, traveled by few. Are you prepared
for the challenges of the unbeaten path to true success, challenges that
are parts of pursing your dreams, or are you prepared simply to become
a spectator in the cheap seats in the game of life?

Regardless of how success is defined, the definition must embody a bold
vision nurtured by stubborn determination and achieved through endless
hard work. Great intentions and lofty goals do not add up to achievement,
and words are cheap. Just listen daily to would-be leaders continuously
giving you food for thought followed by very little, if any, action. Do
you recall these words of Lucretius: What is food to one man may be fierce
poison to another?? My mother taught me that I do not have to eat just
because someone is serving. For true success, you must be careful
of the food you eat and of the table from which it is served. The process
of eating can be used as a recipe for success because it contains the most
important ingredient: hunger, or appetite. Physical hunger causes
the brain to seek solutions, internally or externally, to such a natural
urge. Eating is the process by which this physical hunger is relieved,
the process through which the body is externally nourished. We ingest
a variety of foods, some healthy and others poisonous. Physical hunger
is to the body as spiritual hunger is to the mind or intellect. True
success is to spiritual harmony as healthy food is to a sound body.
As appetite precedes eating, spiritual development precedes accomplishments.
I want to employ everyone with an appetite for achievement to "EAT" for
success daily.
It may seem odd to be encouraging people to "EAT," when it seems as
if everyone is restricting their intake of food, examining what they eat,
and watching their weight. What I espouse is "EATing" for the nourishment
of your mind or intellect. Many people are walking around physically
obese and psychologically anorectic and their minds must be fed a special
diet if the condition is to improve . If one were to feed an infant a steak,
the baby would probably regurgitate it, if asphyxiation did not begin.
It is not that the steak is uninviting or unpalatable, but that the infant
has not developed physically and mentally enough to digest such a stupendous
meal. This analogy is offered as a road map to help you mature beyond
an infant stage to consume and digest what you need to succeed personally
and professionally.
If you have an appetite for true success, you need a recipe, or a model.
When you are starving, your enemy brings you food, but your friend delivers
you a recipe so you may feed yourself forever. I am the friend who
offers a model for achievement that involves "EATing" to promote academic,
mental, social and spiritual prosperity. If you have an appetite
for true success, you must focus on Education, Attitude and Time.
EAT for success.
Education
Malcolm X informed us that, "Education is our passport to the future,
for tomorrow belongs to the people who prepare for it today." This adage
is more applicable today than it has ever been before. As we move into
the Information Age, low wage, blue-collar jobs are being phased out in
record number. In 1960, manufacturing jobs accounted for one out
of four jobs and by 1990 represented one out of six. Furthermore,
many people, directly affected by the Information Age, do not possess the
education or training skills necessary to perform the alternative high-tech
positions that are being created. A high school diploma no longer
represents a level of education which allows one to enter the job market;
the college degree is becoming the minimum requirement for meaningful participation
in the marketplace. Pursuing and obtaining an education serve one
with increased opportunity and vision. For success in the dynamical
system of modern technology, education is not a choice or decision....
but a must! Moreover, this education must go beyond formal schooling or
training. It must comprise sectors which treat the whole of the individual.
Every man is limited by three things which are the knowledge in his mind,
the strength of his character and the principles upon which he is building
his life. So, your education must treat the mental and physical as well
as the spiritual.
Attitude
There is much to be said about the Optimist and Pessimist. The
optimist is very positive and his every move is directed toward achieving
goals; whereas, the pessimist, is never satisfied, unfocused, negative,
verbally destructive and an outright depressing person. Moreover, a negative
person drains your psyche and energy. Thus, when one strives to be successful,
he or she must surround himself or herself with positive people maintaining
positive attitudes and positive energy. Jesse Jackson often states,
"It is often your attitude and not your aptitude that determines your altitude."
Your attitude is a reflection of your self-esteem and a negative person
is usually a person of low self-esteem. A recent study showed that
most successful people have a high self-esteem and an "I CAN" attitude.
The next step toward achievement is easy if you remove the phrase "I CAN'T"
from your vocabulary. Establish a positive attitude and environment
around yourself. Speak positive words, think uplifting ideas and these
will translate into constructive, self-affirming behavior. The words you
speak are the most important aspect of life changing behavior, for words
spoken into the mind become ideas, and ideas held become attitudes and
attitudes held and manifested become behavior. Therefore, to develop life-sustaining
attitudes and thoughts that are developed into positive action, we must
police and discipline the words we speak and hear. Once belief in self
is attained, the problem is 50 percent solved because the greatest obstacle
in solving problems is the psychological barriers you create from past
failures.
Time
Simply put, time waits on no man. Time is the greatest teacher, but
it kills its student. The adage that the smart man learns from his own
mistakes, but the wise man learns from the mistakes of others is a universal
truth and should be memorized by everyone. Timing is everything!
We cannot force it or predict it! This stage of success is
reminiscent of waiting for a bus--the bus of opportunity. While standing
with multiple degrees and vast training experience in your briefcase and
a positive attitude, you still thirst for an opportunity to showcase your
talents to the world. Obviously, the bus of opportunity is very unpredictable;
you have no knowledge of its arrival time or its destination. Furthermore,
if the bus of opportunity arrives and you are unprepared to board, then
you cannot become upset if it never comes again. It is your responsibility
to be prepared when opportunity knocks. Whitney Young stated it best
when he said that being prepared for an opportunity and not having one,
is better than not being prepared and having an opportunity. Timing is
the essential ingredient in the recipe of success!
Now when you eat for your body, you must assess what you have digested
for your mind. Development of self, not material gain or self-aggrandizement,
must be the ultimate quest of every individual. The individual is the genesis
of the family, community and the world. Only through the transformation
of our minds with life-sustaining knowledge will we ever reach true success.
Your attitude about education will dictate the timeframe in which such
a metamorphosis will occur for you!
Dr. Calvin Mackie is an
assistant professor of mechanical engineering at
Tulane University in New Orleans, LA.
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