The Young & The Restless' Shemar Moore
by Devona Dolliole
He's
every girl's dream and consequently, every guy's nightmare; but love him
or hate him; you've got to give him his due. After graduating from college,
a brief modeling career and four years as "Malcolm" on the number one daytime
drama, CBS's "The Young And The Restless," Shemar Moore is among the hottest
young actors out there. What is it that makes this guy so desirable? Is
it that glossy smile, those rippling abs or those bedroom eyes? The answer
can be found in his name - Shemar, which he defines as meaning harmony.
"I'm a product of the late 60's...My parents were into this harmony
thing and I think that's what I'm about in my disposition."
The product of a bi-racial union, Shemar's name is a derivative of his
parents' first names, his mother, Marilyn who is white and his father,
Sherrod who is Black. "...They believed their love was real. It didn't
matter about color. You could mesh and there could be harmony. They wanted
their child to be a product of that...so they took the first three letters
of each name - She-Mar and that's me, baby!"
Together, his parents strove to give their child a sense of balance
and peace. But, it was his mother, Marilyn who shaped Shemar into the man
he is today. Marilyn made certain that home stayed constant, even when
extraneous circumstances threatened its stability.
"There's been a strong sense of harmony within the structure of my family.
My mother made it apparent in how I was taken care of, loved and shown
support. I was taught to believe in myself, and not think I was different
because I wasn't of one race. That's my whole thing. I know I can't save
the world, but I can stand on that sense of integrity - treating all as
equal."
Webster defines harmony as a consistent, orderly, or pleasing arrangement
of parts. Shemar's mix of good looks, great body and infectious charm
is accentuated by his intellect.
Always the driving force in his life, Shemar's mother made certain that
her son was equipped with the proper tools to succeed in life. She insisted
that before she cut the apron strings, Shemar graduate from college. So,
attending Santa Clara University on a baseball scholarship, he graduated
with a degree in Liberal Arts.
Shemar was tempted to pursue his degree at Howard University, but was
dissuaded, by among other things, the weather. "It's too cold and I would
have been on the ten year program because the women at Howard were ridiculously
beautiful...You'd expect me to pay attention to my books?"
A well-known connoisseur of beautiful women, Shemar wisely chose the
safer school. He finished Santa Clara with a 2.8 GPA; a feat in which he
takes great pride. "I've got all these friends who say that I was an 'honor
this and honor that.' -- It was an honor for me to graduate."
Yet, no matter how much Shemar jokes about school or his grades, he
believes that earning his degree is one of his greatest accomplishments.
"I look at my degree and wonder how the hell but it's part of me now.
I wouldn't have this type of success if I hadn't graduated." According
to Shemar, college is discipline and builds character. "A degree shows
the world you can complete a project, "...you can stick it out and take
direction. You can pay your dues. You've done your time."
Shemar applies these lessons from college in everything, especially
his career. "I don't want you to give me anything. I want to deserve it...earn
it. Because if you give it to me, you can take it from me, but if I earn
it, it's mine...Don't give me an Emmy unless I truly earn it."
Shemar knows he's blessed. His harmonious blend has propelled his career
into a natural, uninterrupted progression; however, the ills of Hollywood
are persistent. Gifted Black actors are seen as simply that -- Black. And
while this is a deterrent for many, Shemar refuses to accept it as final.
"People limit themselves There is progress. Kristoff St. John (Neil
on Y&R) opened the door for me. If not for his talent, there would
have been no need for Neil's little brother, Malcolm. I think we have a
long way to go. Yes, we fill stereotypes. I'm a Black man, but my story
is different from other Black men. Hollywood hasn't put it out there
for the masses to consider it all, so there's stereotyping and limits in
the roles we get to play because of the roles presented."
Shemar takes the plight of the Black actor in stride and concentrates
on the big picture. "I have a big plan, but I go day-to-day. I envision
a goal I want manifested in five years, then I break it down...In this
business, if you slip, you could fall off." That's highly unlikely for
the young Mr. Moore, or shall we say "Sir Harmony."
Devona Dolliole is the International-Domestic Publicity Director
for the Bold and the Beautiful CBS television series.
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