The Overseas Option: Life, Lessons and Adventure
by Marcel A. Green
Naturally, almost instinctively, people often ask me why I
would want to study abroad or what good could come from living in another
country? People seem even more perplexed when I tell them that I chose to study
in China. To them, China is not just on the other side of the world, but more
like on the other side of the universe. Not surprisingly, I have found that to
many people, the idea of living in an unfamiliar environment, eating food that
they may not be able to pronounce, and not being able to access their e-mail,
“anytime, anywhere” is about as acceptable as the idea of giving up one’s
right to privacy. It’s unthinkable, impossible, not an option!
Over the years, I have thought deeply about how to answer
this question and explain what I consider the values of study abroad. Amazingly,
my answer has changed as my time abroad has lengthened. Initially, I felt the
adventure and challenge of trying to survive in another culture was the most
concrete value one could get from studying abroad. A teacher of mine once said,
“Young people need difficulties from time to time to push themselves
forward.” After I thought about it for a short time, I became a firm believer
in this idea. A challenge is not always bad, and can oftentimes be very good. I
saw China as my challenge, a chance for me to prove myself to myself. At the
least, I thought, I would be able to learn more about a culture that I was
interested in. Moreover, going to China would give me a chance to practice my
Chinese in a native environment. After
studying Chinese for two and a half years, I was eager to see how good my level
was.
My first trip to China proved to be less of a challenge and
more of a life changing experience. Firstly,
being the only African American in our group and one of only a few in the city,
I was, needless to say, the center of much attention. I hated this situation at
first. I tried to avoid going outside as much as I could just to get away from
the stares. I would often say to
myself, ”Why was everybody always
looking at me? It's not like I’m from Mars.” Eventually, as I thought about
the situation more carefully, I realized that in a similar instance, I would
probably react in the same way. Now, while the staring still affects me at
times, I rarely, if ever, get upset by it because I can now understand the
situation, and why it happens. I can put myself in someone else’s shoes and
see what they see. Secondly, I quickly found out that my Chinese language skills
were almost useless. The more I tried to speak, the less people seemed to
understand me. I realized that if
you could not communicate, then the options open to you in another country are
non-existent. I decided that one of the first steps in understanding another
culture was to master the language.
These were the first of many breakthroughs that I had
during that first trip abroad. I was continually forced to come to terms with
the fact that there are other opinions and other ways of doing things. I came to
learn that my ideas and my ways of doing things were not always right or better.
I learned that regardless of one's country, most people have the same goals in
life. People are indeed people. But
the rhythms, stresses and methods of achieving those goals can be very
different. I felt that my vision had been broadened and that there was always
more than one road to my destination.
Back in those days globalization was not even a word you
could find in the dictionary, let alone an economic and political theory. I
felt, however, that going abroad had helped me to understand another section of
the world and that could only be a positive thing.
The world has seen many changes since my first trip to
China in 1989. Most noticeably is the globalization of almost all sectors of our
lives. Everyday, we can find more and more examples of this trend, whether it is
our increased ability to reach across boundaries through the Internet or the
ability of local news anywhere to become global news everywhere through news
organizations such as CNN. I
strongly believe that a smaller world is extremely advantageous as shown by the
increase of opportunity for many people that may not have otherwise been able to
develop themselves in a closed local society.
But there are also many disadvantages including the eventual increase in
competition and misunderstanding that will come about as unfamiliar groups bump
into each other, and into unfamiliar situations in this new albeit complex world
order. We are connected and getting more connected each day. Long gone are the
days when a factory closing in New Jersey might be devastating just to the
immediate area around the factory. Nowadays that closing may not only affect New
Jersey but may also prove difficult for other communities thousands of miles
away.
In response to this ever-shrinking world, the importance of
increasing global understanding and communication is an absolute necessity. If
we are to take full advantage of the present situation, and create a global
society that is a benefit to all, then we must, for example, try to understand
why in China, it would be a compliment to leave some food on your plate after a
meal, while in the Unites States eating everything would be equally courteous.
In my opinion, the easiest and most interesting way to
accomplish this goal, to learn about another culture, is to live in that
culture; to experience how others live, eat, and communicate on a first-hand
basis. The value of what one will see, hear, smell, and think abroad cannot be
stressed enough. And so, when people ask me now why I choose to study abroad, my
answer is much more simple. A year of study abroad has given me a lifetime of
memories, a wealth of knowledge, and a repertoire of useful skills.
Marcel
A. Green is the resident director of a study abroad program operated by Brethren
Colleges Abroad (BCA). The BCA
program is hosted by the Dalian University
of Foreign Languages in Dalian, China. BCA
operates study abroad programs
for undergraduate students in 10 countries. Mr. Green speaks Chinese and has
studied, worked and lived in China for over six years.
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