Becoming
A Mediator
Your Guide to Career Opportunities
by Peter Lovenheim and Emily Doskow
What
rapidly growing career choice offers a needed service to clients and a deeply
rewarding experience to practitioners-yet remains shrouded in mystery and
confusion? The answer is mediation, the calling of the profession go-between.
With Becoming A Mediator: Your Guide
To Career Opportunities, Nolo lights the way for all those who have ever
wondered if they could make a living by helping people resolve conflict without
recourse to courts and lawyers. The new book is full of practical, encouraging
information for such people.
Mediation enjoys stunning success across
all sectors-interpersonal disputes, commercial matters, and public policy
issues. Recent studies show 88 percent satisfaction with the mediation
experience by both sides. And mediators get a natural high despite the
various challenges and drawbacks that the book clearly describes.
The field is attracting trainees and
aspirants from a broad range of backgrounds-volunteers, therapists, social
workers, HR managers...and, of course, lawyers. What they tend to have in common
is the desire to do the "sacred work" of conflict resolution.
"They are drawn by something
nobler than a desire for wealth or recognition," the authors write.
"...A deeply felt need to be of service, to use one's skills to accomplish
something of value, to connect with people, and to make a difference in their
lives."
Well and good. But how do you get
started? After explaining what mediation is (a ritualized process designed to
culminate in a win-win agreement) and isn't (arbitration, in which a third party
functions as a judge), the authors describe the qualities that make a good
mediator, so readers can self-evaluate. They offer extensive resource
information about mediation training and certification programs, and they show
you how to market yourself one of the toughest tasks faced by the beginner.
The book is full of practical tips for
the neophyte. For example:
- To get exposure to a variety of
cases (and learn what you like), volunteer at a nonprofit public mediation
center
- During a mediation session, tackle
the easiest issues first to build participants' confidence in the process
- Look for clues to undisclosed (and
perhaps unperceived) issues
In a world of conflict, where courts
tend to make a decision only after wasting both side's resources and destroying
any hope of a further relationship, mediation seeks-and usually achieves-mutual
satisfaction. It does so swiftly, at low cost, while protecting both parties'
privacy. Becoming a Mediator provides a clear blueprint for anyone drawn
to this engaging and worthwhile career.
About the Authors
Peter Lovenheim, a graduate of
Cornell Law School, has more than 20 years' experience in mediation. He served
as a legal counsel and director of program development for the Center of Dispute
Resolution in upstate New York, and was founder and president of a private
dispute resolution company. Mr. Lovenheim has written three previous books on
mediation-including Mediate, Don't Litigate, as well as popular books of
narrative journalism. He live in Rochester, New York,.
Emily Doskow is a Nolo author
and editor, and a mediator and attorney in private practice in Berkeley,
California, specializing in adoption and family mediation, especially for
same-sex couples. She is the co-author of two other Nolo books, Do Your Own
California Adoption: Nolo's Guide for Stepparents & Domestic Partners
and How to Change Your Name in California.
Becoming a Mediator:
Your Guide to Career Opportunities
By Peter Lovenheim and Emily Doskow
Price: $29.99
ISBN: 1-4133-0077-4
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